September 25, 200422 yr Author Here's an article about this Link 572053[/snapback] Can you sum up the article i'm not reading that whole thing.
September 25, 200422 yr Here's an article about this Link 572053[/snapback] Can you sum up the article i'm not reading that whole thing. 572063[/snapback] I can't explain :confused
September 25, 200422 yr Here's? an article about this Link 572053[/snapback] Can you sum up the article i'm not reading that whole thing. 572063[/snapback] Basically, early on many gay and lesbian individuals have opposite qualities of their sex, like for men. They tend to not like football and baseball, are considered sissies and have girl playmates more than anything however it shows that it's very clear that homosexuality is not something fixed into you as many are able to classify themselves as non gay after going through some gay experience along with studies to show that counceling to end homosexuality work very well with men with only about a 50% chance in women. Liked I said, it's not something that's simply fixed inside of you. Richard Speck syndrome is a good example for this, as this man tried to use a genetical disorder as an excuse for his murders and raped as it effected other killers as well but also showed a large number of children with those qualities who never became killers.
September 26, 200422 yr Should be in religious or bullpen forum.... anyways, being homosexual has never been proven to be valid. In a way it's a 'mental illness' and I don't mean that in a bad way. Something has just clicked in their brains to make them dig the same sex. And there are many feminine guys that aren't gay. Being gay and being feminine are two different things. 571959[/snapback] Agreed 100 percent. I don't think Homo-Sexuality is a choice, I think it's just that people who are gay have something in their mind different than that of Hetrosexuals.
September 26, 200422 yr Why would you chose to have such a hard life, never be able to marry, to an outcast, never to have children, to have to hide your emotions, never fit in with everyone else.
September 26, 200422 yr Why would you chose to have such a hard life, never be able to marry, to an outcast, never to have children, to have to hide your emotions, never fit in with everyone else. 572489[/snapback] But if that's who you are, why will you deny it?
September 26, 200422 yr Why would you chose to have such a hard life, never be able to marry, to an outcast, never to have children, to have to hide your emotions, never fit in with everyone else. 572489[/snapback] But if that's who you are, why will you deny it? 572507[/snapback] Because society doesn't accept it.
September 26, 200422 yr Society used to not accept certain religions, but now we are more accepting in sane countries of religious differences. It takes people to be able to take up their choice and stand by it for change to occur.
September 26, 200422 yr Society used to not accept certain religions, but now we are more accepting in sane countries of religious differences. It takes people to be able to take up their choice and stand by it for change to occur. 572512[/snapback] Maybe gays aren't as courageous as blacks or religious minorities because their numbers aren't as large as those other groups. I dunno though, I'm playing the Devil's advocate.
September 26, 200422 yr Why would you chose to have such a hard life, never be able to marry, to an outcast, never to have children, to have to hide your emotions, never fit in with everyone else. 572489[/snapback] But if that's who you are, why will you deny it? 572507[/snapback] Some people arent brave enough to admit to who there are because of the prejudice against them. They want to fit in and be liked and be happy.
September 26, 200422 yr Why would you chose to have such a hard life, never be able to marry, to an outcast, never to have children, to have to hide your emotions, never fit in with everyone else. 572489[/snapback] But if that's who you are, why will you deny it? 572507[/snapback] Some people arent brave enough to admit to who there are because of the prejudice against them. They want to fit in and be liked and be happy. 572528[/snapback] You've got to be kidding. Society embraces or at the very least tolerates homosexuals. They fit in quite well, actually. I really enjoy hanging out with the homosexual friends that I have.
September 26, 200422 yr Why would you chose to have such a hard life, never be able to marry, to an outcast, never to have children, to have to hide your emotions, never fit in with everyone else. 572489[/snapback] But if that's who you are, why will you deny it? 572507[/snapback] Some people arent brave enough to admit to who there are because of the prejudice against them. They want to fit in and be liked and be happy. 572528[/snapback] You've got to be kidding. Society embraces or at the very least tolerates homosexuals. They fit in quite well, actually. I really enjoy hanging out with the homosexual friends that I have. 572532[/snapback] Embrace? They cant even get married. All I am saying is that, If a person had a choice they wouldn't choose the harder life style, they're obviously born that way and have to except being "tolerated"
September 26, 200422 yr I can honestly say there is no definitive answer. I know some girls who are lesbians by choice and who could honestly swing either way, but choose the ladies more than the men. But, then again there are people who are predisposed towards homosexuality. I was watching tv the other night and happened to come across America's Next Top Model, and you can't honestly tell me that guy (you know the one) wasn't born gay. He's naturally predisposed towards femininity (not that all gays are feminine). To say it's a choice, like Bobby wears a dress because he chooses to isn't that easy. Some people are genetically predisposed towards homosexuality. Chris Rock said it best when he said, "He didn't TURN gay. He was ALWAYS gay. Back in the day when you were kids, you were playing football and he was jumping rope. He didn't turn gay, he was gay THEN!" I think with about 90% of homos it's safe to say they're genetically predisposed (again those words) to being gay. Now, of course there are those who are afraid to come out because it's "something to be ashamed of" (although, to hear CFDodgeMarlins talk it's hip to be gay; I would argue not in all cases). There are bound to be gays afraid to come out of the closet and straight people doing it to rebel (worst case scenario). To say it's one or the other would be foolish. The world isn't black and white enough to say they either A) ALL choose to be gay or B) are all born gay. I'm saying both are the case, but in my experience I find that a lot of homosexuals are born gay and a lot of people who "choose" to be gay had always been gay from the beginning (not in all cases, 100%).
September 26, 200422 yr Why would you chose to have such a hard life, never be able to marry, to an outcast, never to have children, to have to hide your emotions, never fit in with everyone else. 572489[/snapback] But if that's who you are, why will you deny it? 572507[/snapback] Some people arent brave enough to admit to who there are because of the prejudice against them. They want to fit in and be liked and be happy. 572528[/snapback] You've got to be kidding. Society embraces or at the very least tolerates homosexuals. They fit in quite well, actually. I really enjoy hanging out with the homosexual friends that I have. 572532[/snapback] Embrace? They cant even get married. All I am saying is that, If a person had a choice they wouldn't choose the harder life style, they're obviously born that way and have to except being "tolerated" 572542[/snapback] They can't get married? That's a government issue, doll. All you have to do is watch television.. just flip through the channels, and you'll see how mainstream homosexuality has become. And I am in NO WAY saying I don't approve. Because I don't mind.
September 26, 200422 yr I can honestly say there is no definitive answer. I know some girls who are lesbians by choice and who could honestly swing either way, but choose the ladies more than the men. But, then again there are people who are predisposed towards homosexuality. I was watching tv the other night and happened to come across America's Next Top Model, and you can't honestly tell me that guy (you know the one) wasn't born gay. He's naturally predisposed towards femininity (not that all gays are feminine). To say it's a choice, like Bobby wears a dress because he chooses to isn't that easy. Some people are genetically predisposed towards homosexuality. Chris Rock said it best when he said, "He didn't TURN gay. He was ALWAYS gay. Back in the day when you were kids, you were playing football and he was jumping rope. He didn't turn gay, he was gay THEN!" I think with about 90% of homos it's safe to say they're genetically predisposed (again those words) to being gay. Now, of course there are those who are afraid to come out because it's "something to be ashamed of" (although, to hear CFDodgeMarlins talk it's hip to be gay; I would argue not in all cases). There are bound to be gays afraid to come out of the closet and straight people doing it to rebel (worst case scenario). To say it's one or the other would be foolish. The world isn't black and white enough to say they either A) ALL choose to be gay or B) are all born gay. I'm saying both are the case, but in my experience I find that a lot of homosexuals are born gay and a lot of people who "choose" to be gay had always been gay from the beginning (not in all cases, 100%). 572554[/snapback] :goodpost
September 26, 200422 yr Being gay is "in" in like Hollywood, New York, Miami, San Francisco and Columbus, Ohio (2nd largest gay population in the nation) but as far as the rest of the 85% of the country is concerned being gay is something to be ashamed about. Let's face it, we're on the cusp here. We're forward thinking individuals with the internet who live in high population areas (just a guess for most of us). What about all those places where they don't see homos every day? Where all they know is white, christian and straight? They're bound to be somewhat biased about it. Hollywood doesn't help by portraying gay chic as something cool and fashionable (granted, I commend them at least for putting it in there). It's a double edged sword. And CFDodgeMarlins, all you have to do is look at those old polls on whether or not gays should marry. If being gay is so "cool" then people wanting gays to marry wouldn't have been in the minority (it was usually about 35 for gay marriage).
September 26, 200422 yr Being gay is "in" in like Hollywood, New York, Miami, San Francisco and Columbus, Ohio (2nd largest gay population in the nation) but as far as the rest of the 85% of the country is concerned being gay is something to be ashamed about. Let's face it, we're on the cusp here. We're forward thinking individuals with the internet who live in high population areas (just a guess for most of us). What about all those places where they don't see homos every day? Where all they know is white, christian and straight? They're bound to be somewhat biased about it. Hollywood doesn't help by portraying gay chic as something cool and fashionable (granted, I commend them at least for putting it in there). It's a double edged sword. And CFDodgeMarlins, all you have to do is look at those old polls on whether or not gays should marry. If being gay is so "cool" then people wanting gays to marry wouldn't have been in the minority (it was usually about 35 for gay marriage). 572577[/snapback] :goodpost
September 26, 200422 yr i think people are born gay. but all the gay guys have all these chick friends it's not even funny. this dude at my school he's girlie and he know every cheerleader in school. i don't agree with homosexuality but it doesn't mean i hate gays or lesbians. as for hollywood make homosexuality to be the in thing to do, that is wrong on there part. it's wrong on their part because they are trying to throw it on people who don't agree and don't want anything to do with it.
September 26, 200422 yr I believe faggits, or "the gays" (as they like to be called) are gay because of an internal bowel parasite that attacks the liver during male menstration. When the parasite enters the duadenum and creeps through the urine track, it offsets the cattle herding then gets into the external occipital pretubrence...and that my friends, causes "The Gay"
September 26, 200422 yr I believe faggits, or "the gays" (as they like to be called) are gay because of an internal bowel parasite that attacks the liver during male menstration. When the parasite enters the duadenum and creeps through the urine track, it offsets the cattle herding then gets into the external occipital pretubrence...and that my friends, causes "The Gay" 572849[/snapback] :lol
September 26, 200422 yr I believe faggits, or "the gays" (as they like to be called) are gay because of an internal bowel parasite that attacks the liver during male menstration. When the parasite enters the duadenum and creeps through the urine track, it offsets the cattle herding then gets into the external occipital pretubrence...and that my friends, causes "The Gay" 572849[/snapback] :lol 572861[/snapback] Responding to this is like walking into a trap, so I'll just say this... The hatred contained within this statement is not only undignified (we were having a civil chat), but it's unwarranted. Why do you even have an opinion if you can't even spell "faggot" right? Can't the people who are so homophobic they have to refer to gays as "faggits" at least get educated enough that when they spell out their little diagnosis of why "the Gay" (how original occurs). And not only that, you have someone else, who's obviously between the age of 12-14 laughing at it, as if it's funny? And we wonder what's wrong with our world. Hey, here's a thought, next time you feel the need to be a prejudice bastard why not ask yourself why you feel so threatened by homosexuals. I mean, do they infringe upon your rights, ever? Do they discriminate against you, or hold you back from doing something? Do they take all your money/jobs or women, too? I guess to simplify it, would be to say, what's your beef, what did these so-called fags ever do to you?
September 26, 200422 yr I think that was somewhat of a joke post. 573192[/snapback] No, I was 100% serious. I think Batman has me all figured out....He must be some kind of geniass or something. But really, I know you all were having a serious conversation about homo-sexuality, and god for bid someone comes in and says something a lil wacky, perhaps to keep things from getting a lilttle too serious. And for your information, Batman...or Mr.Wayne, I spelled "faggit" incorrect on purpose. I was typing as if it were me talking. Now...All together lets say, "I am Batman, and I am not gay." Thank you, and goodnight. Motherf***s.
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