June 17, 200620 yr ok i have been hooking up with my best friends ex girlfriend. I really like her and she is really nice and we can talk for hours. My frend alawys says he doesnt care if i do it hes done with her. He also alawys makes fun of her rlllllllllly bad llike really mean things, and she doesnt really like him. But now he is saying that he is mad that i have been getting with her because he still likes her. And he alawys talks to her and he wont give up till he gets his way. what should i do? I really like her and we just talk so much and i have had awesome times with her. and i dont want her to fall for him again....and i think she really likes me can anyone please help just give me ideas
June 17, 200620 yr Men 101: Don't go after your best friend's ex. I don't think anything good has come out of this situation. Ever.
June 17, 200620 yr Author you might b right. Soo what happens if he gets back with her now after all of this should i b mad? dont forget ive been getting with her and i rlly like her
June 17, 200620 yr You just broke the 7th Law of Man: Thou shalt not hook with thyne best friends ex.
June 17, 200620 yr You already did it so who cares? If she likes you, you have nothing to worry about. Forget him. Ahh, high school...
June 17, 200620 yr You already did it so who cares? If she likes you, you have nothing to worry about. Forget him. Ahh, high school... Disagree completely...maybe .09856% of all high school relationships ever last to be anything and the majority of the time you never talk after the breakup, but you're best friends from high school will be around forever. Bros before Hos. And ya don't mess with best friend's exes. Nothing good ever comes out of it. This is the kind of thing that will destroy a great friendship. That said...there is no reason you still can't be friends with the girl and hang out.
June 17, 200620 yr I had a best friend in high school that got together with my ex. I have never talked to either of them since.
June 18, 200620 yr It's amazing how disparate the views of the ho's are from those of the bro's. In hindsight, it's clear now that you made a decision when you decided to start hooking up with the girl. You decided you'd rather have her than your best friend. That's a perfectly acceptable decision, but realize now that: 1) He totally hates your ass now 2) She might be a whore who's hooking up with you to get back with/at him 3) Years from now, when you're in the real world, you'll have no contact with him. That might be the normal state of your high school friendships, or it might be because you'll end up hating each other over that ho. 4) Years from now, the ho won't be keeping contact with you anyway. Now that you've already stirred the pot, you basically have to make a decision. The bro or the ho. And in all likelihood, if you pick the bro, he'll go for the ho, and you'll start hating his ass. So if I were you, I'd go keep helping myself to some more pie, wholly accepting the reality that my friendship with my "best friend" is over, and totally aware of the fact that it's not going to work out with the ho, who's probably using me anyway.
June 19, 200620 yr Author Well thanks everyone for helping. To update everyone on crazy ending this is what happened. Sooo she doesnt like the my friend anymore actually hates him. And her and i have become reallly reallly tight. My friend and i r still rllly good friends the only thing he said is the trust has to come back so i asked how long will trust take and he said "rome was not all built in one day". Umm i like her a lot and we are goood friends and we will see what happens from here
June 19, 200620 yr Its a man law. You do not hook up with a best friend's ex. That's just silly. The "you poke it, you own it" law could apply here, if you know what I mean.
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