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Who Are We To Question Love?


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Ok, so first, I figured I'd post the lyrics to this amazing Cast Iron Filter song about a 30 year old dude and a 15 year old girl. 2ndly, I wanted to know what yall thought about older guys and younger girls (or vice versa)....I think I'd hook up/date a girl 16 and up...

 

He met her on New Year's Eve

At a party that her parents threw

He'd had a few too many drinks

But too many was just too few

She really liked his red Camaro

The way he styled his hair was nice

Gold chains and a pearl white jacket

Like Don Johnson on "Miami Vice"

They end up kissin' in the back room

While her parents entertained the guests

She's sweatin' under the collar

Wonderin' if she passed the test because

 

She's fifteen and he is thirty

It seems they both just play the fool

And though it might be a little dirty

He picks her up right after school

Yeah, they're flyin' like an eagle

She's his little turtledove

And though she ain't even close to legal

Who are we to question love?

 

He?d worked with her father way back

In nineteen-eighty-three

They'd run a little shipping business

Stealin' money legally

They were based outta Sacramento

They went to Reno for the holidays

They made good makin' a living

And then they gambled it all away

Now he's found someone who loves him

Someone who makes him feel alive

She said she'd take him anywhere

But the only problem's she can't drive

 

She told her dad they're getting married

While she's smackin' round her chewin' gum

She said, "You can take it or leave it."

Now her daddy's goin' to buy a gun

But instead he hired Alejandro

To go and kill his new son-in-law

I don't know about you there, mister

But that's the weirdest thing I ever saw

Now he's runnin' from the hitman

She's a disease without a cure

She's talkin' to her friends about him

How she always liked ?em real mature

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umm..I'm dating a guy that's 4 years my senior....I don't regret anything, don't get me wrong...but sometimes it's sooooooo obvious (the age difference)...energy levels aren't the same, but for the most it's better to be with a guy who's older, just my opinion...

 

Has his education finished, financially stable, has a good job, super respectful, etc...don't get me wrong, there might be good guys out there that have never had a job at 21 or 22 and might not be all that well off, but it's definitely something that I prefer to have.....

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Age is just a number.

 

Honestly, age only tells you how long ago the person was born. People don't mature physically at equal ages, they definately don't mature mentally and in character at equal ages, etc. Pretty much nothing in the world happens at equal age from person to person.

 

It's just the way life is.

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I usually date older women. The last girl I was with is 23 (I'm 21) and one girl I'm interested in is 26. I have a couple women that hit on me, they're 30, 42 and 45 respectfully :plain .................. :shifty .................... :thumbup

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Max is younger than I am (not by much...we're a month apart). Our maturity levels are the same and I like it that way. I don't want someone who is way too older than I am or way younger than I am because the maturity levels are just too different. Yes, there are guys out there who are 30 years old but act like children. But still, I can't picture myself with that much older than me. I am happy with Max. Our relationship is great. He's finishing up school in about a month and he has helped me soooo much with school. If it wasn't for him, I'd still be stressing over school. He calms me down when I am nervous or upset about something. He's perfect. He has a big heart and that is what is important.

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Adam and I we are so many years apart but we are nothing apart in our maturity and our aspects in life we both raise our daughter the exact same and it's weird to think about we can have different lives yet raise a baby together

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Adam and I we are so many years apart but we are nothing apart in our maturity and our aspects in life we both raise our daughter the exact same and it's weird to think about we can have different lives yet raise a baby together

age is just that.... a number.

 

 

 

with Kate, I have learned that its often a good thing that we are a little bit apart in ages...I'm not sure why.

 

 

 

of course being raised in two entirely different lifestyles also factors into it largely as well....different things we did as kids...different states, everything....

 

 

it allows us to bring different perspectives and ideas into our relationship.

 

 

it also allows us to bring two different mentalities when raising that little girl...as we strive to do the best job we can in raising her.

 

 

but the similarities and such we have proves to us that age is just something we joke around about and nothing more really.

 

 

if others want to talk about it...i dont care....we have learned that as long as we are comfortable and understand what all is goign on in our relationship...things will be fine....the rest doesnt matter.

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I think that small age gaps are fine. What I wouldn't do is be in a relationship like in that song. I can't imagine myself dating someone 15 years older than I am. Yea, age is just a number, but sometimes you need to think about maturity levels and experience.

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im weird ive dated young & older girls ... i dont get it

 

 

im 22 but I dont think im very mature and im cool with that, my gramfather (RIP) was a child his whole life, and im just like him.

 

But, I once dated a girl that was 5 years younger than me and sometimes it was sorta childish and highschoolish and rightfully so ... on the other side I also dated a girl that was 27 and she was great and everything but the whole situation was sorta odd at the same time.

 

I dont care much about age as long as their mental level is somewhat equivalent to mine

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In my personal opinion anyone not outside of high school doesn't have the life experience or common sense that those days outside of high school bring. I'm not saying people in high school are stupid, I'm just saying they're still newbies to the world (the same can be said of college students like myself, to some extent).

 

I don't care how "slammin" that booty is, anyone under age 22 is out. For me, it's hit it and quit it. Unless I really found a connection with that person. But, seeing as how I can't stand most girls for longer than two weeks, I don't see this behavior stopping anytime soon for me.

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How can you call girls immature if you have that mentality... hit it and quit it is a very immature action. Besides, I can't imagine being 22 with much life experience... there are cases of 21 year old with life experience but not as a whole.

 

I personally wont date a guy under 28, I need someone that has stability and is past the 'fart jokes'.

 

Sorry... this is all my opinion, not meant to offend anyone.

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How can you call girls immature if you have that mentality... hit it and quit it is a very immature action. Besides, I can't imagine being 22 with much life experience... there are cases of 21 year old with life experience but not as a whole.

 

I personally wont date a guy under 28, I need someone that has stability and is past the 'fart jokes'.

 

Sorry... this is all my opinion, not meant to offend anyone.

I'm a young fella with a lot of schooling and limited time and resources. And I've got a lot of living to do.

 

Thus it stays "Hit it and quit it." Besides, if I really, really felt like there was more to the relationship than me wanting to have sex with the girl and nothing else, it woudln't be like that.

 

I've got years to slow down. I never claimed to be mature. Just more mature. I'm still down for boxing with the fellas and hitting the gym in an attempt to recreate my athletic toned body from high school. I'm a boy in a man's body. But, I also appreciate the finer things in books and movies. So go figure.

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