OldSand Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 any do's or don'ts for the wedding or the parental meeting???? I know it's hard, but be polite and respectful. Parents love that. They're expecting to hate their daughter's boyfriends. Smile, don't talk about yourself the whole time, laugh at their jokes, pretend you're interested in their stupid conversations but don't be too fake. Also don't try to unhook her bra at the dinner table. I never understood why guys don't warm up to a girl's parents more. I mean there is no better way to get in good with a girl than to make nice with her parents. Now if it's just a fling on the other hand.... eeehhh, I'd rather not even meet them, lol. Here's the important question actually....how do i get in good with her friends??? Ummm be yourself. If they don't like you, that isn't exactly your problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuickGold Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Be as much of a gentleman as you can be. With her parents there, your job is to impress them and go out of your way to make her and her parents happy. And if they see her having a good time, they'll approve that much more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strandedx02 Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I know it's hard, but be polite and respectful. Parents love that. They're expecting to hate their daughter's boyfriends. I never understood why guys don't warm up to a girl's parents more. I mean there is no better way to get in good with a girl than to make nice with her parents. However a wedding on the second date would throw up red flags all over the place for me too... :o :panic :panic :panic :panic :panic :panic :panic :panic :panic :panic :panic :panic With me, I think it's because I tend to be pretty uncomfortable around anyone who's considerably older than me, so parents just adds that whole other level to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lefty Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 YOU'RE IN OVER YOUR HEAD. GET OUT, GET OUT. Unless she massages your privates at the dinner table and asks you if you like threesomes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest FishFanInPA Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Nah i don't think i am.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Admin Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 Guys, don't flatter yourselves. Just because a girl invites you to a wedding doesn't necessarily mean she wants to get more serious, or wants to marry you or anything. It just means she needs/wants a date. Simple as that. I've invited guys to weddings because I needed a date-- guys I didn't even really like that much (not to say she doesn't like you, PA). :thumbup Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest FishFanInPA Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 Well a rousing time was had by all but I really don't get women.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Admin Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 Well a rousing time was had by all but I really don't get women.... What happened? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest FishFanInPA Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Just a quick update..... I just finished a convo with the chick who said that she felt that all my actions during the wedding were forced and that i was trying too hard to have her friends and family like me.....she told me that she didnt feel we clicked either...... UMMM.....I drove 40 minutes out of my way to go to a wedding for her and this is what i get?!? I'm going to be single forevah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish Tank Frenzy Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Damn dude I feel for you. Dont let this get you down though. Just like you found her you can find another hoe, see hoes come a dime a dozen. Just keep it going and f*** that bitch youre better with out her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beinfest4Prez Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Wow. That really rather sucks. But I agree with what FTF said... :mischief Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catchoftheday Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I just went to a wedding with a friend who asked me to go with her a while back. I told my girlfriend about it and she really didnt care, now the day before I went to the wedding she said that she really wanted to go ... like really badly ... not that she was pissed because I was going with another girl but simply because she really wanted to go ... I dont know it could have been kinda cute Im a hopeless romantic and damn proud to admit I am ... I feel bad for not taking her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDon Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 go for it dude; what have you got to lose? Ever heard of restraining orders? Seriously though......if the whole date had a fun, relaxed vibe and she wasnt staring into your eyes for minutes at a time, I say go to the wedding. Oh, and tattoo on the lower back? Might as well be a bulls eye! Oh! :thumbup Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish Tank Frenzy Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 go for it dude; what have you got to lose? Ever heard of restraining orders? Seriously though......if the whole date had a fun, relaxed vibe and she wasnt staring into your eyes for minutes at a time, I say go to the wedding. Oh, and tattoo on the lower back? Might as well be a bulls eye! Oh! :thumbup He already went to the wedding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mabdul Doobakus Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 The chick sounds like a nut. It sounds like she almost wanted you to make a scene. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flamarlins3 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 She sounds kind of crazy. I mean how are you really supposed to act when you are meeting her friends/family for the first time. There are still plenty others out there. You'll find a good one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDon Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 go for it dude; what have you got to lose? Ever heard of restraining orders? Seriously though......if the whole date had a fun, relaxed vibe and she wasnt staring into your eyes for minutes at a time, I say go to the wedding. Oh, and tattoo on the lower back? Might as well be a bulls eye! Oh! :thumbup He already went to the wedding. Oh........that sux. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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