Hi everyone. I met my gf on the internet about 6 months ago, she lives about 50 miles from me. She fell in love with me the first time she met me, and I did too. After about 2 months of being together, she removed her profile from the site, and so did I. (by the way, she is asian) My father is looking for the asian wommen too, so He went to go on this other asian site, different then the one I met my gf, and said to me, hey, ******* is on here, when I saw her on there I really felt bad. In simple terms, she is on another dating site(and she does not think I know), she was last active on may the first. She always tells me she loves me, and cant wait to see me, and Im the man of her dreams. My father tells me to play it easy and dont let the cat out of the bag. What is your advise everyone, how should I take this. Thanks

I hate to break it to you, but she might just be using you. It would make no sense for a girl to setup another profile on another site while she's dating you. BE CAREFUL!

I would call her on it. Ask her why she would set up a profile on another site when she already has a boyfriend. If she gives a bogus excuse, let her go because she probably isn't worth your time.

thanks guys, I hate to hear what your saying, b/c Im a really nice good looking guy who treats her right, she aint gonna find another guy like me ever in her life, she says that she is affraid that I will wake up one day and not love her anymore, she says please dont ever hurt me or leave me, Im getting close to doing that though. I went ahead and signed up for the site she is on, and I changed a buch of info on myself, Im going to send her an interest, and if she takes the bait, Im gone.......I can find another women pretty fast, she will lose...

I think the two of you should get married

 

 

sounds like a match made in heaven

I've never done the online dating thing but from what I hear the women are either: 1.) desperate or 2.) crazy

 

In your case it sounds like number 1. She probably cares about you but probably not as much as she leads on since she is obviously keeping her options wide open.

 

Call her on it and see if she ventures into camp number 2.

well she has not been active for 17 days, so thats the good news. I agree with el penquino, and maybe I should Try to court her abit more.

wow dude, just ASK her about it. Not that hard of a thing to do, especially if you get along/actually know this person. If you can't talk to her about a simple thing like this, you fail. BTW: Asia is a huge country. Plenty more Asian chicks where that came from.

wow dude, just ASK her about it. Not that hard of a thing to do, especially if you get along/actually know this person. If you can't talk to her about a simple thing like this, you fail. BTW: Asia is a huge country. Plenty more Asian chicks where that came from.

 

Joke plz?

 

Joke plz?

 

Joke plz?

wow dude, just ASK her about it. Not that hard of a thing to do, especially if you get along/actually know this person. If you can't talk to her about a simple thing like this, you fail. BTW: Asia is a huge country. Plenty more Asian chicks where that came from.

 

Joke plz?

 

Joke plz?

 

Joke plz?

 

 

You caught me. Land, Country, Place, Continent, Area...the same basic principal applies here.

wow dude, just ASK her about it. Not that hard of a thing to do, especially if you get along/actually know this person. If you can't talk to her about a simple thing like this, you fail. BTW: Asia is a huge country. Plenty more Asian chicks where that came from.

 

Joke plz?

 

Joke plz?

 

Joke plz?

 

 

You caught me. Land, Country, Place, Continent, Area...the same basic principal applies here.

 

Sorry, I don't mean to have a negative context with that... it's just that it happens somewhat often, and I kinda find it funny...

 

But yes, I agree with your advice.... ask the chick what's up... it'll give the best answer (maybe not one you want to hear, but the best one)

Cheat on her then break up with her.

Don't even waste time cheating on her- dump her fast and move on. She's not worth it.

Cheat on her then break up with her.

 

This girl is going places, I tell ya.

Cheat on her then break up with her.

 

:thumbup

Cheat on her then break up with her.

 

Are you offering :whistle

 

:shifty

 

:lol

Cheat on her then break up with her.

 

Are you offering :whistle

 

:shifty

 

:lol

Just always works for me. :shifty

Cheat on her then break up with her.

 

Are you offering :whistle

 

:shifty

 

:lol

Just always works for me. :shifty

 

Where do I sign up

marlins 2011 how old are you?

marlins 2011 how old are you?

About 12.

I never even had a boyfriend at 12. The Marlins were the closest thing to a boyfriend then.

 

*late bloomer*

I never even had a boyfriend at 12. The Marlins were the closest thing to a boyfriend then.

 

*late bloomer*

I started french kissing at 7 with a 12 year old girl, which was really awkward.Now i just look back and smile.

I never even had a boyfriend at 12. The Marlins were the closest thing to a boyfriend then.

 

*late bloomer*

I started french kissing at 7 with a 12 year old girl, which was really awkward.Now i just look back and smile.

I see she totally took advantage of you and you enjoyed it. :thumbup

Im 22, anyway, I sorted it out with my Girlfriend, and it was just a bad error on her part. ITS ALL OK NOW, so thats it. Anyway Rachel, can I have ur number, Im a Pretty Good looking guy. kidding about ur number. Could someone please Close this Topic..