September 16, 200916 yr So I have liked this girl from school for quite a while now. Lets call her Sue. I thought she was the greatest thing in the world. So then I decided to ask her out and she said she doesn't like me. Well that was a fail, but now she keeps talking to me through IM and she keeps on flirting with me, showing me pictures of her in shorts and all, and asking what I think about them, and she keeps on mentioning things about other guys to me. I had one of her friends (who is also my friend) go and find things out regarding to this situation and she found out that Sue doesn't like talking to me, she thinks im weird, and is just playing me. Its funny that she is saying and acting like this to me because last year there was a conflict between Sue and another girl in regards to a boy. Turns out, her own friends didn't want to talk to her anymore and she was alone. I was the only one she had talked to. I was the one that was nice and tried to make her feel better. Oh well, I guess thats life. I really had feelings for Sue, but why is she like this with me? I don't think I deserve it. Thoughts? *I am not in a good mood now.*
September 16, 200916 yr Let her take her own journey dude, and you take yours. I know you don't want to hear this, but I have a long list of girls I wish I hadn't wasted time pining over or thinking about from when I was your age. I am assuming you are in high school? Have fun, man. Don't worry too much about the females. If something comes along that seems like it would be fun (and healthy) then by all means, go for it - but one thing I can tell you from experience is that you ought not worry your life away over girls with issues. You cannot solve those issues for them. These are issues they need to see to themselves, before they can be in a fulfilling relationship with someone. Having said all that - if you're just looking for some action, do what you can. :lol
September 16, 200916 yr lol you want her? Act like you don't give a crap. Scratch that, just don't give a crap. lol
September 17, 200916 yr It sucks but it happens to everyone. The only guy I ever really liked rejected me and life went on (even though at first I didn't think so, ha). I guess block her IMs for a while or something. She doesn't sound like that great of a person anyway so forget about her, you can find better.
September 17, 200916 yr ^^ Fishing for MMP, et. al to say "Oh Rachel, I would never reject you". :whistle j/k, j/k
September 17, 200916 yr :lol :lol :lol Exactly. No, seriously, all that stuff that happened in HS seemed huge at the time, but my advice is to just let it go. Better stuff will come along.
September 17, 200916 yr Btw, I would try to NEVER talk to girls about other guys. They such you into that crap, and it's a huge waste of time. If they were interested, the odds are very high that they wouldn't want to talk to you about other guys; unless they were also trying to tease you in a twisted way, in which case you probably don't want to date that girl anyway.
September 17, 200916 yr ^^ Fishing for MMP, et. al to say "Oh Rachel, I would never reject you". That's Me! I'm the man. Sucks bro but this kind of crap happens throughout highschool, so far I've seen it happen twice to a few of my friends. It's a mad world that we live in but all you can do is keep on living.
September 17, 200916 yr Women are evil. They complain when guys cheat, but truth is a lot of them deserve to be cheated on. Anyway, this girl seems like a real piece of trash so either forget her, or get even with her. Maybe show those pictures she sent you to everyone she knows.
September 17, 200916 yr You should've been an asshole to her. Girls in high school prefer that over nice guys.
September 17, 200916 yr Women are evil. They complain when guys cheat, but truth is a lot of them deserve to be cheated on. Anyway, this girl seems like a real piece of trash so either forget her, or get even with her. Maybe show those pictures she sent you to everyone she knows. Or me.... :whistle :lol
September 17, 200916 yr I doubt you would ever have a good relationship with her anyways based on what you said. So forget it and look for another. Pretty high school girls with a decent personality are not that rare. At least at my school.
September 17, 200916 yr Be carefull of it, its just a prick teaser, Its messing with your head, move on big time.
September 17, 200916 yr Women are evil. They complain when guys cheat, but truth is a lot of them deserve to be cheated on. Anyway, this girl seems like a real piece of trash so either forget her, or get even with her. Maybe show those pictures she sent you to everyone she knows. Or me.... :whistle Or Us...:thumbup :lol
September 17, 200916 yr Simple - start going with the mutual friend that both you and "Sue" have. That will show her....
September 17, 200916 yr Simple - start going with the mutual friend that both you and "Sue" have. That will show her.... Simple, dont get into relashionships unless you want a stressfull and sad life, get your action and move on, thats whats its all about anyway :hat
September 17, 200916 yr Simple - start going with the mutual friend that both you and "Sue" have. That will show her.... Simple, dont get into relashionships unless you want a stressfull and sad life, get your action and move on, thats whats its all about anyway :hat Preach on. :cool
September 17, 200916 yr Superfish - take your crap elsewhere. This thread isn't as serious, but you opened your mouth with this garbage in Miri and Maxx's wedding thread, ffs. Get a life, and let others live theirs.
September 17, 200916 yr focus on you - when you are young it's a good time to be selfish and set yourself up - take care of you and the rest will follow don't waste time on girls like this - she's shown what she's about and there are hundreds of thousands of better options out there just waiting to be discovered how you move on is up to you, but i'd slam the door shut firmly either way i agree a bit on the above - i'd start to play here - get more photos and lead her to give you some quotes on others - save it up - make a nice collage and then let the world see her for what she is chances are she has a rival or two who you would gain instant credibility with
September 17, 200916 yr Superfish - take your crap elsewhere. This thread isn't as serious, but you opened your mouth with this garbage in Miri and Maxx's wedding thread, ffs. Get a life, and let others live theirs. its not garbage, im trying to give the kid some advise that will prevent him from getting hurt. I have a life, Im a player, I get want I want and then I get on with my life, thats the way it should be, dont hate me b/c Im independent. And please dont slam me down b/c im warning guys about women, b/c you know they cant be trusted, and if you trust them, then your blind.
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