Yes or no?

If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

No. I know looks aren't everything, but that doesn't mean they don't matter at all.

I'd hit it...

 

 

 

 

hopefully my penis doesn't get crushed

No. I know looks aren't everything, but that doesn't mean they don't matter at all.

 

Agreed

if my trampoline were damaged...

I'd hit it...

 

 

 

 

hopefully my penis doesn't get crushed

 

If you had to take 1 or 3, which would you take (they both share the same "by third belly will crush your dick" trait)

 

 

and for the record... obese? No way. Fat... it depends on the person really. You can still look nice and be a very nice person and be overweight. Obese is a hell no for me though.

If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

This is the answer.

it depends. as an obese person myself (well atleast according to the bmi thing.. I dont look like OBESE like those girls in that picture) I really wouldnt go for a girl who probably looks the same weight as I do. there are a few chunky/kinda fat girls I like and would date. its all nice to say "if you love them it doesnt matter what they look like" but theres has to be atleast some attraction in order for you to take an interest in the girl.

If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

This is the answer.

Lol in order to love someone you gotta be with them for a while. So my answer is no i will NEVER date an obese person.

 

(Yes i know, never say never.. But for this i could say never)

If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

This is the answer.

Lol in order to love someone you gotta be with them for a while. So my answer is no i will NEVER date an obese person.

 

(Yes i know, never say never.. But for this i could say never)

Well, you could fall in love with a person by just knowing them for a while as opposed to dating them.

If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

This is the answer.

Lol in order to love someone you gotta be with them for a while. So my answer is no i will NEVER date an obese person.

 

(Yes i know, never say never.. But for this i could say never)

Well, you could fall in love with a person by just knowing them for a while as opposed to dating them.

correct, but physical attraction plays a part too. If you dont find someone physically attractive no point of being with them

Yeah...a relationship without physical attraction is nothing but a friendship.

 

Personally I'm mostly into petite girls, but, nothing wrong with a little meat. Key words being a little. I just wouldn't be able to go over that. I have no problem shooting the sh*t with one, and I've met some cool fat chicks, but I've never been attracted to one and the thought of going farther with one honestly grosses me out. I mean, that might be assholish to say, but, it's their choice to not put in the time and effort. tough sh*t.

Yeah...a relationship without physical attraction is nothing but a friendship.

 

Personally I'm mostly into petite girls, but, nothing wrong with a little meat. Key words being a little. I just wouldn't be able to go over that. I have no problem shooting the sh*t with one, and I've met some cool fat chicks, but I've never been attracted to one and the thought of going farther with one honestly grosses me out. I mean, that might be assholish to say, but, it's their choice to not put in the time and effort. tough sh*t.

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If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

This is the answer.

Lol in order to love someone you gotta be with them for a while. So my answer is no i will NEVER date an obese person.

 

(Yes i know, never say never.. But for this i could say never)

Well, you could fall in love with a person by just knowing them for a while as opposed to dating them.

correct, but physical attraction plays a part too. If you dont find someone physically attractive no point of being with them

This is also true.

If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

This is the answer.

Lol in order to love someone you gotta be with them for a while. So my answer is no i will NEVER date an obese person.

 

(Yes i know, never say never.. But for this i could say never)

Well, you could fall in love with a person by just knowing them for a while as opposed to dating them.

correct, but physical attraction plays a part too. If you dont find someone physically attractive no point of being with them

 

Not even... if you find them physically repulsive there is no reason to be with them.

Define 'obese'.

 

By what standard?

 

If it's by your personal standards, then that's what you are looking for. Also- if someone physically repulses you, then (of course) you aren't going to develop a relationship with them.

 

While most of us would qualify as 'obese' by BMI or weight charts, I believe there's a healthy weight and unhealthy weight.

 

In my younger days, I would have been considered 'zaftig'. I was not skinny but well proportioned. I looked like a real woman, not a stick with raisins! :-)

And, my hubby was in awesome shape. As we got older and began a family, things changed.

Do I look the same now? No. Does he? No. But that doesn't mean I'm divorcing him because he's become 'fluffy'.

Yenta somewhat alluded to the point I was going to make regarding what someone personally deems "obese" being an important factor. In an ideal world with no quasi-superficiality it'd be easy to say it doesn't matter, but that's not the real world.

 

Also, depending on how obese the person in question is, it could be a self-image or dietary issue that would be a major turnoff. Compulsive eaters or something. I myself prefer athletic girls, a girl that would/could play tennis with me, go for a run/jog whatever, so physical fitness matters to me.

 

So, the short answer is yes, I'd date a reasonably overweight girl and I've done it before - but ideally I prefer a more athletic/fit lady.

Yes or no?

 

 

NO!

 

 

You've seen my girlfriend. lol I'm not skinny myself, so it's got to balance it self out somehow!

Definently no. I know its bad but I find people who are vastly overweight disgusting. If they have medical problem then its uderstandable but still no for me. Also I think the BMI is flawed. If you go to the gym alot and have tons of muscle but your short its says your overweight. Take Dan uggla as an exmple hes listed at 5'11 200 his BMI is 27.9 which is classified as overweight something he is not.

Yes or no?

 

 

NO!

 

 

You've seen my girlfriend. lol I'm not skinny myself, so it's got to balance it self out somehow!

 

"It's Scarlett Johansson! Look at her boobs!" :lol

Definently no. I know its bad but I find people who are vastly overweight disgusting. If they have medical problem then its uderstandable but still no for me. Also I think the BMI is flawed. If you go to the gym alot and have tons of muscle but your short its says your overweight. Take Dan uggla as an exmple hes listed at 5'11 200 his BMI is 27.9 which is classified as overweight something he is not.

Yeah, my BMI has risen since I've started hitting the gym a few months ago, from 22.7 to 24.4.

If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

This is the answer.

You arent going to MAGICALLY LOVE SOMEONE AT FIRST SIGHT. Especially if they don't attract to you. Love takes time.

Definently no. I know its bad but I find people who are vastly overweight disgusting. If they have medical problem then its uderstandable but still no for me. Also I think the BMI is flawed. If you go to the gym alot and have tons of muscle but your short its says your overweight. Take Dan uggla as an exmple hes listed at 5'11 200 his BMI is 27.9 which is classified as overweight something he is not.

 

 

There is a specific reason that its "overweight" and not "fat".

 

BMI is just a scale based off of others, its the least accurate of fat% tests, of course. The idea that 27.9 would be considered overweight is because the majority of people who fall under that BMI are indeed overweight.

If you love someone it shouldn't matter if they are fat skinny short tall or any crap like that.

This is the answer.

You arent going to MAGICALLY LOVE SOMEONE AT FIRST SIGHT. Especially if they don't attract to you. Love takes time.

I feel like I fell in love with my fiancee before we started dating, after months of being "just friends".