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My girlfriend has been showing some interest in stripping. She's really serious about it, and it scares me. She has even talked to a few club owners! This is not like her. It hurts to know that this is even in her mind. Cash can make you do some crazy things. Man, I don't wanna lose my girl to this. Please help me convince her not to get into this type of thing. I dont know, share some horror stories, list the dangers, something! List some good reasons that'll be sure to change her mind. Just help me, please. I can't talk to anyone else about this, because she doesn't want people to know, and I don't want the word getting out.

Thanks in advance.

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and get her to watch that ice cube movie from a few years back... particularly the rape part, the part when cube and his boy are trying to get the drunk stripper in their car and the part of the dude stalking diamond.

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That's tough man... I've never been big on strip joints. All I can think of when I go to one is that these girls are someone's sister, daughter, aunt, etc....

 

It's hard to respect them, really. But at the same time, I just feel bad for them.. I look at them and I feel like they're all just empty and shallow with their lives going nowhere. I know a lot of them do it because they have to, or to pay their way through school, but I'm just not a big fan.

 

I have 2 sisters and I would be heartbroken if either one of them ended up doing that.

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Dude be simple with her..Be like "you can't do it,i won't let you",she's going to ask you why and you tell her "because i love you"..That shall get it done :thumbup

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He's right. Women are suckers for the I love you. But only if you mean it. DO NOT THROW THOSE WORDS AROUND UNLESS YOU MEAN IT.

 

It's like screaming bomb on a plane whilst looking or being Arab, you'd be setting yourself up for a public beating, verbal and physical.

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The situation i'm in right now is so crazy, that words can't even describe it. Words can't describe what i'm feeling. I really like this girl, she's my best friend. I know her in and out. It's so much easier said than done. "Break up with her" I just can't, man. You don't understand. I tried explaining to her the dangers involved with stripping, but sometimes I just can't find the right words. Sometimes, my words don't even make sense to myself. I've tried telling her not to do something like this, because I care. She's in huge money trouble and when she comes back with something like "Well what do yo expect me to do? I need the money. No minimum wage job is going to get me out of trouble"... i really don't know what to say. I don't want to see her struggling and working 3 different jobs either. Damn. I really don't know.

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It all depends on the strip club she wants to work at first off.

 

 

If its one of the high class strip clubs, its not all that bad, well unless you have a problem with it, which you do. But thats another issue.

 

You need to have a sit down with her, you both need to be mature and lay out all the positives and negatives. You both must be open and willing to listen each other out. That is the key.

 

And....the high class strip clubs arent that bad. Its all a little fun, I know a couple of ladies that are married, they have fun stripping, they both trust each other completely. Not that bad a deal really.

 

The low class strip clubs are usually that, but they are trash anyway so you dont want to go there anyway.

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the problem is, as Das alluded to, that unless it's a super high-class joint, the locale itself just breeds trouble. Drugs flow in there like candy. Some girls take off with guys at the end of the night back to hotels if they pay enough. There are guys that will hang out in the parking lot & follow them home. There are all kinds of scary stories you hear about. And even the high-end strip clubs are trouble because the guys there are big spenders & expect a lot for their money.

 

As much as she might just enjoy the "art" of stripping, it's probably a tremendous struggle to be able to just do the job, make the money, but stay out of any trouble.

 

Tough call man. If she really cares about your relationship I wouldn't think she'd do it. I have no earthly idea how I could bear having a women I really cared about giving lap dances at a strip club. Maybe it'll work for her, she'll make enough money, then get out of it quick, who knows. But try & give her all the horror stories you can think of to change her mind.

 

Good luck man...

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Maybe she's suggesting it out of the curiosity factor. Like, "What would my man say if I told him I'd want to be a stripper? Would he care enough to stop me?" Sometimes, immature girls do stuff like that to you guys because we're unsure of the relationship and we need someone to fill the shoes of Daddy and tell us it's not a good idea to do something.

 

Maybe she just wants to get a reaction out of you. Maybe she wants more of a love committment.

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